The quarrel of lovers is the renewal of love.

yes, No, yes, No!. thoes simple words are enough to start a quarrel. conflict often arise from lack of understanding between two people or groups of people.

Disaggreements are not necessary bad, its how we handle them that results to something bad or quarrel. when disaggreements arise between two people it just simply means one person have an opinium different from the other, which often times happens because our mind are not programmed like a robot.

we see alot of siblings rivals and fights, bestfriends, co-workers, etc.. they happen alot, and are also resolved alot. so like wise with spouse, disagreements will always occur, the fact you’re in an intimate relationships and you share a deep bond doesent mean your mind are automatically in sync. do not expect your spouse to always know what is in your mind, or always understand you immediately. you will have to nuture some time in communicating what you want, mean , and feel to the other person in a way they understand you. and in cases where they don’t, well just let it pass!.

do not allow hatred to creep in, in times of conflict rather try to remember all the wonderful things your spouse have done and why you chose each other in the first place.

Times of conflict are times of eye opening, and fresh perspective of  what could be better and improved upon between the two of you. it doesn’t mean your spouse hates you, it just means things can be better, and love blosom in another dimension.

wish you a blissful renewal of love!



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have a great day filled with love.



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  • First of all I want to say great blog! I had a quick question in which
    I’d like to ask if you don’t mind. I was interested to find out how you
    center yourself and clear your mind prior to writing.
    I’ve had a hard time clearing my thoughts in getting my ideas out there.
    I do enjoy writing however it just seems like the first 10 to
    15 minutes are usually wasted just trying to figure out how
    to begin. Any ideas or tips? Cheers!

    • kirkira says:

      hello there, thank you for the kind words. as for writting dont look towards perfection just write anything. do this everyday within a month you will be impressed with how much good write ups you have admidst the 30.

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