A happy man marries the girl he loves, but a happier man loves the girl he marries.
Being in love and staying in love is two different things. love is a commitment than a feeling. you will not always have the feelings of love in a committed relationship,but you can always commit to that relationship. and being committed is a lot of work, its not always convenient to do what your spouse requires from you most of time, but you have to do them anyways.
remember! as times goes by changes do occur both physically,mentally,spiritually in each of us. that is why we will never be who we were, we need the trust from our spouse that they see the true us amidst the change, and believe in our future.
so be your spouse believer!